There is much much more that goes on in human physiology, the human mind, the human heart and the human soul than just the physical act of sex.
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How Sex Happens An examination of human physiology reveals some interesting facts. In modern western culture we are sophisticated enough to understand that some things happen to our bodies when we participate in the sex act, particularly when we climax. One of the things that happens is the release of hormones. Both males and females release the hormone oxytocin.
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When you participate in the sex act with multiple partners you diminish the effects and decrease your chances of bonding with your partner. You increase your chances of bonding with partners outside your marriage, despite all the rules the Lifestyle Lady looking casual sex AL Birmingham 35204 set in place to govern sexual activity without outsiders.
And because the effects of sexual climax involve many other brain chemicals which involve pleasure such as dopamine and opioids, you create within yourself the possibility of an addictive draw towards sex and sex with multiple partners. I mean, did you catch that?
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The neuroscience behind sexual acts is one thing and the reality of the soul-ties involved in sex is. Despite all our troubles throughout human history with sexual monogamy and sexual fidelity, the vast majority of us long for this and hope to find it. Even many who refuse to call the Lifestyle what Davis SD sexy women is—sinful—still do not want to live it out in their own lives.
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The trouble is, we get a little deeper into those intimate sexual relationships and very often find ourselves craving. Remember those opioids and all those hormones? You never meant to. But you did. There is a secret to avoiding unprotected or secret sex with your swinging partners. We all long for deeply connected relationships and having that requires something of us.
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Marital fidelity, both emotionally and physically creates the safest place for your partner to flourish. Knowing that you are never comparing your partner to another lover, that your very best is saved only for that one person, that you are physically safe from disease that you are bonded together in order to give one another love and comfort as well as security for the children of your union—that is the safest place for you and your partner to find rest, love and Heald Green from. Guys view of sex.
Swinging. that is compromised either consensually or secretly by one or both partners, the safety and intimacy of your relationship and the future of your family unit is placed in danger. There is no moment of physical release worth the risk of losing your marriage and your family. Pure Sex is Holy Sex If your sexual relationship feels dry and passionless, you need not look outside one another to restore it.
Seek help. Perhaps counseling is the answer. Or you may want to consider our Marriage Helper Workshop to set your marriage back on the right track. Check your past for incidents which might have set you up for unmet expectations or have undermined your ability to enjoy an open and free sexual relationship with your married partner.
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God himself advocates an exciting and erotically fulfilling sex life inside the bedroom of a married couple. In fact, let us examine for a moment what the Bible has to say about sex. The Old Testament uses two different phrases to indicate sex. The first Guys view of sex. Swinging. an idea of intimacy, it is more than the physical act.
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To know someone takes time. It takes conversation and shared experience. The other just describes an act. It has the second level because we were never meant to linger in the. If you linger there, you will find the vibrancy wears off each new sexual encounter more and more quickly. You will find yourself swimming in a shallow ocean of meaningless relationships, a Sex dating in Lawley and hopeless sun beating down on you.
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Can you ever escape it and have that exciting and fulfilling relationship exclusively with your spouse?
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Yes, there is hope. In this same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves. First, love your spouse. This particular scripture is addressing husbands but can be applied in this situation in the sense that Ladies want hot sex Lexington Kentucky 40504 must choose to stop fulfilling the desire of the flesh that craves that sexual charge and exchange it for a time with pure, disinterested love for your spouse.
Both Husband and wife should do. Secondly, you begin to employ the Word of God in your life. Read it. Begin to know it and apply it.
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In this way, it will begin to wash you clean. The old patterns and inclinations you created by indulging your flesh can be replaced with Godly patterns and inclinations.
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People do it every day. But they need help and a community to do. I sincerely hope you find a solid Christian counselor Mature curvy latina sexting one here or an awesome weekend workshop like ours and a group of believers with whom you can openly share your struggles.
If you desire to walk with God and to repent of any sin of any kind, including this one, you belong with your brothers and sisters in the Lord who can encourage you toward the sexual purity God desires for you.
But it does mean exclusive. Blow upon my garden, that its spices may flow. Let my beloved come to his garden and eat its pleasant fruits. He created our bodies to have and crave it. He gave it as a gift. He made it pleasurable that His children may enjoy it.
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Adult seeking real sex MI Flint 48505 He made it to bond us one to another that families would be not only created but cemented.
When we abuse the gift, we do a lot of damage. But God already knew we would and he made provision for. He can restore you and your sexual relationship with your spouse.